A paypig's reckoning
I used to think I needed it—the humiliation, the drain, the dopamine hit of sending money to a girl who barely remembered my name. It felt like control, like purpose. It wasn’t.
This site is my withdrawal.
A monument to every dollar I won’t send.
Every tribute I didn’t make.
Every “good boy” I’ll never hear again.
If you’re here, maybe you get it.
Maybe you’re stuck in the loop too.
This is your wake-up call.
She doesn’t love you.
You’re not special.
You’re not a king.
You’re a paycheck.
But you can quit. I’m trying. This is me trying.
Findom is a form of NPD, being a finsub is a form of co-dependency. Both externalize the reasons for their feeling of self-worth.
— betabube (@beta_bube) April 23, 2025